Celebrating Father’s Day: A conversation with Renaldo Chambers

As a father who did not grow up with his own, Chambers has made it his mission to be a constant and guiding presence in his son’s life. From the moment Cristiano was born, he has dedicated himself to nurturing him into the responsible young man he aspires to be. Equally committed to his family, Renaldo strives to embody the virtues of a devoted husband, setting an example for his son while supporting his wife with unwavering dedication. 

Through patience, love, and steadfast involvement, Renaldo Chambers exemplifies the profound impact of a father’s role, not only in shaping the future of his child but in strengthening the foundation of his family.

OHN: What’s the most valuable lesson you’ve learned about being a father?

RC: The importance of patience and listening. Being present and understanding my child's unique needs and perspectives have taught me to be more empathetic and supportive.

OHN: What’s one piece of advice you wish you had received when you were younger?

RC: That it's okay to ask for help and to embrace vulnerability. No one has to do everything alone, and seeking support can strengthen both you and your relationships.

OHN: What’s your favorite memory of you and your son (family) together?

RC: Being present during the birth of a child is an unbelievable experience. It's a memory that you will always cherish, and one that will and can even draw closer to your partner. 

OHN: How has fatherhood changed you as a person?

RC: It has made me more patient, responsible, and aware of the legacy I am leaving behind. It’s also deepened my capacity for unconditional love.

OHN: What’s something you’re proud of but don’t often talk about?

RC: The ways I’ve managed to stay resilient during challenging times, demonstrating perseverance for my family without always seeking recognition.

OHN: If you could go back in time, would you parent differently? How?

RC: Yes, I would emphasize more quality time and patience, understanding that growth is a process. I’d also focus more on modeling emotional openness.

OHN: What’s something you hope I’ll always remember or carry with your son?

RC: That he is loved unconditionally and that he can always come to me with his joys and struggles.

OHN: What’s the funniest or most unexpected thing about raising your son (family)?

RC: His candid honesty sometimes saying exactly what’s on his mind in ways I never expect, which keeps life interesting and adds humor to everyday moments.

OHN: How do you define being a good dad?

RC: Being present, loving unconditionally, and guiding with patience and integrity. It’s about being a steady source of support and encouragement.

OHN: What’s one thing you’d still love to do together?

RC: Take a trip to explore new places and create more shared adventures, building memories that last a lifetime. Also, my son and I both play tennis, it’s usually a good time to have father-son moments.